"Day Dreaming" and Fantasizing

There are 2 basic methods of "day Dreaming" and fantasizing: [1] In a manner to learn what may happen if something is performed. Usually, the fantasies that are negative in effect remain in memory. [2] "Day Dreaming" or fantasizing about things a person desires, desires to own, desires to perform, desires o see, or desires to happen. These types of mental creations are used to make things happen in the future. The memories ate kept until made to be real. There are numerous other forms of fantasizing o "Day Dreaming"; but, most are based on these 2 basic functions. There are positive, neutral, and negative functions of both of he methods listed above. Care must be utilize tp prevent injury, harm, or other negative function' unless the specific function results in positive situations. This is a fporm of neutral function.

Sex and Love

When desires grow, sex is a way to eliminate what is causing the desire. Autoeroticism or sex with a partner eliminates most; or all of the desires completely. A person recovers from the desirer; and, sometimes with his/ her routine; but, with love, there is no elimination. Once a TRUE love is experienced, it does not attenuate. It grows until it is at its fullest. Love continues 324 hours per day. It is an extremely pleasant and pleasurable feeling. At its height, love feels similarly to an orgasm; but, without the sexual desires. All sexual desires are usually impeded; or totally nullified. Love is very much more powerfull than an ultimate orgasm. Infatuation is harmfull; and coms and goes; usually with a sexual contact added as an addition to itself to assist in elevating the mockery love; or, to satisfy the sexual desire without a bonding of partners. This is very hazardous due to accidental lossage of oneself if the individual goes to far in the sexual contact or relationship.

Male and Female Hate

From youth, males and females argue, insult each other and d other things that keeps them separated from each other. This terminates a sexual situation. Uncontrolled, the male and female would have a tendancy to attempt to mate. Males and females generally tend to hate each other. They remain separated from each other; even repulsed at each other. During their growth, they become more aware of their sexuality. When that happens, they tease each other by partial ; or total, nudity, seductive speech, or other method. That is the mating instinct reaction. Eventually, a male and female get together, have sex; then separate as if the total act was repulsive; especially, if pregnancy did not occur. It is very rare for a male and female to join in love. Neighther desires to lose himself / herself to another person. Optionally, males and females unite with the same gender, masturbate, or utilize another form of conjoination that does not involve the opposite gender. In some cases, this is the reaction to "women's liberation" where females are separating from male slavery; or, in the case of the updated people, the males separating from female slavery.

Chosing a Partner in a Relationship

There are 9 ways an individual will select a partner. Here are some of the ways: [1] By physical appearance regardless of personality. This is an unstable relationship[. [2] By personality regardless of physical appearance. This type of relationship is moderately unstable. [3] By both the physical appearance and personality. This is a rare selection. [4] By sensory perceptions of Sex. If sexual contact is overpowering, the personality and physical appearance are not important. This is a hazardous type of relationship. [5] Jealousy of a friend, or protectiveness. This is a relationship where a person "protects" his/ her friend from a disastrous relationship with someone "bad" by replacing his/ her partner with his/ her self. This is hazardous. [6] By unwilling selection to prevent the partner from being offended or hurt emotionally. This is a hazardous manner of sympathetic induced relations. [7] By necessity is a partner selected. This is a hazardous relationship if it is not mutual. [8] By force if the partner enslaves the individual. Whether by self inflicted or extrinsically inflicted slavery, this type of relationship is a felony. [9] By mutual relations. This is the MOST suitable, stable, and proper form of relationship

Losing Oneslf in Love and Restorations of Love

There are many songs on the Internet that display how a person "fell" in love; but, did not realize the love was not a real love. After a while, the individual "fell". The individual usually did not lose his or her self. I have experienced many females who "fell" in "love". with me. I restored them back by returning their love and explaining to them they did not really love me; and to remember how they thought before falling in love, and thinking like that> that way they may start over. I am the ONLY one worldwide that can and will do that. After "falling" in love, an individual will usually "lose" his/ her emotions, mind, spirit, love and desires to another person; as if being controlled by the other individual. That is a form of illegal slavery. That is a slavery type of love tat is self inflicted by accidentally sharing too much love unwillingly. Sometimes it is not noticed at all when the person falls. It is gradual. In any case, true love is a very unselfish love that allows both individuals to be freed after the sharing of love. They take their love back and give their partner his/ her love back. Both partners refuse to change the partner; or to steal their partner's spirit, mind, or physical desires. An old adage states: "If you truly love someone, set them free. If hey love you they will come back.". This allows total freedom of the partner; as well as determines how far a relationship will go. It is not good to attempt to enslave a partner knowing that partner will one day leave anyway.

Adulthood and Sexual Developement of Females

During youth, females are naïve. They tend to present themselves in "Sexually provocative" ways; but, are not aware of it. They do not think of sexuality as a provocation; though they do sometimes attempt to provoke a sexual confrontation from a potential partner. Young females do not perceive the reality of negative thoughts, events, incidents, or sexuality. They are not aware of losing themselves if attracted sexually; until it is too late. Females tend to have fun, like a high stress life, and tease others emotionally, sexually. and physically. That is a way of a "self Test" to see if they are stabilized in the sexual and emotional states of mind. It is mandatory to preserve their youth by isolating them from the "adult" or sexually and emotionally active groups. This will preserve their youth. The females do contain a strong defense of claiming; and prosecuting for, rape if they are overpowered unwillingly. When reaching "adulthood", the young females are less energetic, less happy and content, and much less positive in thought. They learn how to fight emotionally, physically, and sexually against others who are provocative sexually; as well as other advances made against them. That ids differential from leaving the area where the incidents occurred when young. They learn of crimes, and other violent and negative events; and how to avoid or defend against them. They no longer may be happy knowing of negative or violent things. It; again, is imperative to create "New Societies" where all of the negative things are completely unknown; and any strange, unusual, or unknown thoughts, actions, and behaviours are avoided and not learned about; as well as forcing the individual[s] to leave their environment; that threatens them. Only digital computerized defensive systems should deal with negative, violent, or corrupt individual processing and knowledges of them.

Battling for Control in a SExual Relationship

There are 2 ways people try to control their partners: [1] In present day; where very little love is shared, the partners attempt to control each other to try to control their partner. The male attempts to use the female as a reserve for hi own needs. The female does the same; except, females attempt to accrue many partners. [2] In a true relationship, control is mutual. it is used by both the female and male to pleasure the other in a loving and caring way. The male and female creates his/her own pleasure by pleasuring his/ her partner. This type of pleasure is more extrinsical than intrinsical. The individual pleasures the other, By taking control, the individual may regulate and moderate the partner's pleasure. This creates a pleasure by watching and listening to the partner's pleasure. In some cases, voyeurism, wife swapping, a boyfriend or girlfriend bringing an extrinsical partner into a relationship creates a greater pleasure to the individual; as well as the partner. This is the similar type of relationship as the one in #2 above.

Human Sexuality

In present times, as well as in the past, many sexual relationships were formed from a provocation and rape function. The male or female displays an attraction for a targeted potential partner; then, progresses through many stages of "emotional" displays. The potential partner will usually ignore the provocations at the first. After a while, the potential partner displays recognition of the provocations. At that stage, a display of strength is functional. The potential partner attempts to display resistance against the provocations. In time, the potential [partner will [1] withdraw and ignore he provocations, [2] respond to the provocations by display of recognitions and progressive attractions to the provocations, [3] or become submissive to he provocations. If both individuals get together, a stronger provocation is displayed by the attacker. the attacker watches intently at the individual o see what reaction is cause by the provocations. Sometimes the "victim" will utilize tease routines to cause further provocation. In some cases, the teases will cause lack of restraint from the attacker; and result in excessive provocations or sexual contact. In other cases, the victim will depart from the attacker and withdraw; especially I the provocation becomes too great; indicating lack of self control by the attacker. In rue love, both individuals; or a single individual will approach he other. The individual will display affection to the other. The individuals; if willingly, will share displays of affection and attraction. If hey are not compatable, one or both individuals will separate. In some cases, the may separate, continue the attractions; then, reunite. is may occur many times before a final decision is made. If both partners are compatable, the affections and attractions become greater until both individuals mutually unite as a boyfriend/ girlfriend. In some cases, sexual contact may be considered; but, in a true love relationship, it is considered lastly; if at all. At that point of time, he development; or the termination, of the relationship begins. The relationship may progress to the point of marriage.

Females and Homosexual Male Friends

Sometimes females prefer homosexual male friends. The males are more trustworthy and are relied on not to attempt to become sexually aroused or provocative to the female. In some cases, the male becomes bisexual instead of homosexual; or, converts to haeterosexuality.

Definition of "Adult"

The definition of "Adult" is classified in multifariosity. Here are some definitions: [1] "Sexual" Adult: This definition is utilized by many as an adult that is sexually active or mature. [2] "Mature" Adult: This type of Adult is classified as a person that is disciplined, self controlled, and may survive living alone and supporting his/ her self without extrinsical assistance. [3] "True" Adult: I have redefined the Adult as a person that is self disciplined and controlled, and may survive without extrinsical assistance, is psychologically, morally, and philosophically stable.

"Falling in Love" Transmaladmixturation

During the 1960's, 1970's and at other time periods, females would become excessively hyperexcitable. When at concerts; for example, the females would become so excited by the music group or music , they would fall to the floor. Some of them become unconscious. Those are the symptoms of transmaladmixtutration. The symptoms are so severe, they may be fatal or extremely destructive to the mind, spirit, and physical structures and infrastructures.