Losing Oneslf in Love and Restorations of Love

There are many songs on the Internet that display how a person "fell" in love; but, did not realize the love was not a real love. After a while, the individual "fell". The individual usually did not lose his or her self. I have experienced many females who "fell" in "love". with me. I restored them back by returning their love and explaining to them they did not really love me; and to remember how they thought before falling in love, and thinking like that> that way they may start over. I am the ONLY one worldwide that can and will do that. After "falling" in love, an individual will usually "lose" his/ her emotions, mind, spirit, love and desires to another person; as if being controlled by the other individual. That is a form of illegal slavery. That is a slavery type of love tat is self inflicted by accidentally sharing too much love unwillingly. Sometimes it is not noticed at all when the person falls. It is gradual. In any case, true love is a very unselfish love that allows both individuals to be freed after the sharing of love. They take their love back and give their partner his/ her love back. Both partners refuse to change the partner; or to steal their partner's spirit, mind, or physical desires. An old adage states: "If you truly love someone, set them free. If hey love you they will come back.". This allows total freedom of the partner; as well as determines how far a relationship will go. It is not good to attempt to enslave a partner knowing that partner will one day leave anyway.